Published June 10, 2009

Dad to the Bone
For the Man Behind the Man

SPA & FLASK SERVICE

If he's been a little tense lately, a beer and an 80-minute deep-tissue massage ought to help him relax. If not, the included flask and take-home bottle of tequila should probably do the trick.

411:: $200, June 18-21, Argyle Spa, 8358 Sunset Blvd, West Hollywood, 310-623-9000

THE ULTIMATE COMME ÇA COCKTAIL

On the big day, you might even be okay with throwing down $23 on a cocktail. The fine barmen at Comme Ça will be slinging Rockefellers in dad's honor—a jigger of 23-year Rittenhouse rye, a pony of sweet vermouth, a dash of bitters and a brandy-soaked cherry. Make it two.

411:: June 19-21, Comme Ça, 8479 Melrose Ave, West Hollywood, 323-782-1104

QUALITY PATIO TIME

Or you could always take him to the beach…in Culver City. The upstairs patio at Rush Street is being filled with sand for a weekend of surf-and-turf specials, margaritas and beer pong. You learned from the best.

411:: June 19-21, Rush Street, 9546 Washington Blvd, Culver City, 310-837-9546

BBQ, BEVERLY HILLS-STYLE

In Beverly Hills, even the barbecues are coursed out—this epic four-course affair, on one of the city's most striking rooftops, includes everything from Peking Duck Spring Rolls to grilled rib eye to a formidable dessert platter. For an extra $15, they'll throw in a whole grilled lobster.

411:: June 21, 4-9pm, $55 per person, Roof Garden at the Peninsula, 310-551-2888

CIGARS, CHAMPAGNE AND COGNAC

But to truly go all out, Pasadena's grandest hideaway will unveil an indoor-outdoor labyrinth of waffles, Chopin vodka Bloody Marys, cigars, Krug champagne, sausages, Hennessy XO cognac, sushi and plasma screens showing golf. It's like they see right into his soul.